It was the year 1999. I was studying in Chennai and my then boy-friend was supposed to visit me for a day. All I knew was that he said he would meet me at my hostel bus stop in the morning. Taking into consideration his estimated arrival time, how long he would take to drop his stuff off at his friend’s house, freshen up, and then reach my hostel, I figured it would be 9am. So I waited patiently.
8.30am – What if he arrives early? I skipped breakfast and rushed to the
designated meeting place. Giddy with the promise of romance.
9.30am – Still waiting with mounting excitement.
11.30am – Excitement turned to severe butterflies in my
stomach. Probably the result of a hungry stomach.
1pm - Tears and
trepidation. My heart beating faster every time I saw an auto pass by. Feeling
conscious of the many people who kept looking at me wondering why I had been
sitting at the same bus stop for the past many hours.
1.30pm – Nervous wreck.
And finally when he walked up to me a good 5-6 hours after
the appointed time apologizing profusely about a bus break down… well I’m not
going into how that story ended. Because that is not the point here.
The point is, there was a certain drama and romance to not having cellphones, not having every minute and second mapped out, of not tracking someone’s every move by the hour. Yes it could be frustrating, but we knew no other way and I believe the love stories of those decades were so much more a by-product of destiny because of that.
The point is, there was a certain drama and romance to not having cellphones, not having every minute and second mapped out, of not tracking someone’s every move by the hour. Yes it could be frustrating, but we knew no other way and I believe the love stories of those decades were so much more a by-product of destiny because of that.
Destiny. Love. Back to basics. A simpler time. Bread.